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Monday, September 5, 2016
A teacher a day keeps the terrorist away
This title might sound too harsh but with all the strife in the world , I am only forced to believe that had these dreaded terrorists who shed blood of innocents , got the shade from the umbrella of a teacher , they would definitely not tread the path of terror. Yesterday , on the teachers day eve , I had two important learnings. These learnings proved that we can learn from teachers around us day in and day out.
We might not know that the person is a formal teacher or not , but if we are part of a good environment, life teaches us something daily if we keep our eyes, ears , nose and heart open.
At 1.30 in the afternoon, St Peters square in Vatican was brimming with close to 4 lakh people witnessing the canonisation of Mother Teresa , a woman who has taught the world what compassion coupled with unselfish character and will to help humanity can do to the world. On one side of the spectrum we see thousands of terrorists killing people in Paris, Kashmir , Pakistan , USA , London and so on . We do not remember the faces of these terrorists . We detest the, for these deeds and throughout our lives we hate them. On the other end of the spectrum , a wrinkled face and lady clad in white , Mother Teresa's face remained etched in our memory with no negative connotation. Single handedly she taught the world how to save and serve lives that have been rejected by society. Such is the power of her persona. Saint Teresa , you taught me to serve mankind and have inspired millions who throng to Missionaries of Charity to be a part of universal brotherhood.
The second learning of yesterday is a more bizarre but thought provoking one. For those who know me , I am a voracious movie goer and am found at malls on Sunday. Like every Sunday , I was at Magneto Mall in the evening after having just returned from a tour. As I entered I saw a teachers day celebration happening at the mall, the kind that felicitates teachers one day in a year. The organiser saw me, coerced me to speak a few unscheduled words and I continued with my journey to the movie. After the movie late in the evening we were looking for a place in the restaurants but there were serpentine queues of hungry people. As we rejected each option of waiting for food, we reached a new joint 'Dialogue in the dark " or "Taste of darkness" , just opened and had a black decor with a girl waiting to welcome us. Having no option we asked her what it was. She told us that you could either feel an Exhibition of darkness or have food in the darkness. Seemed interesting. We entered into the venue and a guide asked me to put a hand on his shoulder and my family followed suit . In pitch darkness we took some serpentine turns and reached a place where I could feel a table and our guide Ramprakash made us feel our chairs and sit . He kept chatting with us on how this German concept of experiencing darkness was doing well in 38 countries and how he was trained to walk in the darkness. While his endless chatter was intriguing to my wife , my thoughts had trailed into how we could have lived without light. Any light giving instrument was not allowed into the restaurant. So we had no mobiles not any light except a few red camera lights faintly visible . So there were night vision cameras watching us to avoid any nuisance in the darkness. The food came and RP took our hands to the plate and asked us to guess the soup and the starter before disclosing. We were using our other senses to the fullest with our sight being incapacitated. A totally new experience. After the food, the finger bowl and then the dessert. RP would excuse himself , deftly walk through the darkness to a sound from the counter and bring back preplated food , water , etc. I wondered what training they would have provided . At the end of the meal , he casually told us that the policy of the restaurant was to "hire blind boys " because they could handle darkness better.
This statement hit me like a bolt. All this while a specially abled boy was showing us the world in darkness, guiding us, feeding us , serving us and entertaining us. We had not realised that in darkness , he had the strength to teach us . How weak our senses are that if one of them is taken away, we become totally helpless. Ramprakash told us that when we exit the door to the world of light , we could see him but he could not see us.
My day was made by a Saint and a specially abled boy . Both of them showed me the way. Happy teachers day to both of you and all the teachers who have taught us formally or informally about life.
Tuesday, February 16, 2016
Leave youth alone - politics' new low
Thursday, November 26, 2015
#SRK retweets Dr Jawahar Surisetti article "Hypocrisy"
Thursday, September 10, 2015
Indranization of relations arrives in India- imported from the west
Sep 10, 2015
Indranization of relations arrives in India- imported from the west
Blog by Dr.jawahar Surisetti
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Last week witnessed the largest spectrum of emotions that I have witnessed in the 50 years of my life. It was a landmark because I had completed 25 years of my marriage , my elder son became self sufficient after his stint at IIM and left home to build his career. My younger son too went for his college education leaving the sage precincts of home in his quest for quantum physics.
I live in a flat with 2 toilets which were used by 4 people but suddenly found myself last week that the two people left at home ( me and my wife ) were left with on e toilet each to use. The angst of both the children leaving home at the same time has left us in a world bereft of smiles. The clamour of the XBox, or the strings of the guitar or the laughs of the TV show Big Bang theory have suddenly gone out of our drawing rooms. We try and explain to ourselves that the young ones have gone out in search of greener pastures but tears don't listen and the heart aches. This is because we have nurtured the relationships at home and the growing up process for the children and the parenting process for us has been a very joyful and satisfying one. We have given the freedom to choose, implement and achieve and the children have flourished in this wholesome give and take relationship of love and fun.
So now, when they left ,we feel lonely and the home that we have built with them suddenly finds itself desolate and eerie in their absence . We are not used to this . We have all grown together from poverty to the state we are in today but have adjusted ourselves with whatever we have - content. That is life. We are ready to share toilets , we don't want the luxury of owning one toilet each. A new journey has begun and we have to live with it.
The other side of the spectrum Is the much touted Indrani Mukherjee case popularly known as the Sheena murder case . Indrani's daughter through her first husband ,Sheena, has an affair with her third husband's son. So she allegedly murdered her daughter Sheena with the help of her second husband and driver and her third husband can't believe it. The daughter has disappeared for the past two years and nobody cares to know where she is . Moreover the third husband does not know whether Sheena is his sister-in-law or step daughter till the police tells him. This I call as the INDRANIZATION OF RELATIONS and it seems to have arrived. Indrani lived in a mansion as TV reports show of her misdeeds in the garage of the home . I presume this mansion had many toilets and they did not need to share them. In this mansion the dark deeds and the strange story of murder , intrigue and the two people staying there not knowing each other well enough is the story that stands in contrast of the closely knit family of Surisettis with sharing toilets and knowing each other inside out. That's the reason I conclude that I would rather prefer my flat filled with love rather this bizarre relationship status in a huge mansion . But we will have to face the fact that slowly we are losing the value of relations that is the foundation of Indianness . I pray to God that the INDRANIZATION of relationships does not arrive and we remain Indians in our values and not ape the west. This is one area we are far ahead of them and I am proud of my family and the togetherness we share. I will strongly resist INDRANIZATION .
Saturday, March 7, 2015
International Women's Day 2015 tribute
Introspect today- not just pray
Everywhere today,We pray
That women be safe,Day after day.
Religions we believe,say something
Our actions we do, show the opposite.
Bible says "she opens her mouth
With wisdom,
And the teaching of kindness
Is on her tongue" ( Proverbs 31:26 )
All these kindness is in vain
Because 700 million women in all nation
Have no food , water, sanitation ,
Healthcare and education.
Islam professes " Men are protectors
And maintainers of women,
Because Allah has made one of them
To excel the other" (An-Nisaa’ 4:34)
On a cold winter night,In a bus in the capital,
The driver and the helper, molest Nirbhaya
Barbaric and gruesome ,torture her
And dispose. The Protectors.
Nanak preaches " From woman, man is born;
Within woman, man is conceived;
To woman he is engaged and married.
Through woman, future gens come" ( Raag Aasaa Mehal 1, Page 473)
A fine school day, the corridors ringing
Children in the classrooms, teachers on job.
Terrorists gun the children, mothers wailing.
Were these gunmen not born to mothers ?
Hinduism goes like this on women
" Where women are honoured, Gods are pleased.
But where they are not honoured ,
No sacred rite yields rewards." (Manu Smriti 3.56)
Half the world is women,
Mothers, daughters and sisters.
Religion if we practice and pray, understand
Women are here to stay.
Preach something , practice something
Is the order of the day.
Not just today, day after day
Respect, support women, come what may.

